Ezekiel 36:26 tells us, “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you.” There’s hope my friend, and it’s in God! If you find you have the problem of self-centeredness, talk to God about it, He can change your heart. The good news is that your marriage doesn’t need to be a failure. If your attitude is “my way is more important to me than the marriage,” you won’t be able to function as a married couple. One of the reasons this process is so difficult is outlined very clearly for us in Isaiah 53:6: “We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us have turned to his own way.” We’re all human, wanting to do it our “own way.” But the reality is one can’t have it their way and make mutually agreeable rules and guidelines. But if you’ve never created any rules before, and you or your partner don’t like rules and boundaries, it won’t be an easy task. Your job as a couple is to create some boundaries and rules that will guide you in your marriage. You came from one family, and your partner came from another family, and those families were different. You probably got married as friends, but then found yourselves running into difficulty because you each had your own way of living and doing. And I take you for better or worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health to love and cherish you until death do us part.” But, did you really realize what you were getting into? Being married is hard work! When you got married you probably said something that resembled the traditional marriage vows: “I will love you, and comfort you, and keep you in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, keep unto you as long as we both shall live.
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